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if there will be one movie that i never get tired watching it is "SEX AND THE CITY" both 1 and 2! i just love the complexity of their lives while having fun! I don'y know how to describe it well but i think that's why i love it! Their friendship is unfathomable. They are really the BEST of friends! They bring out the real definition of SISTER. I know they're not perfect. Each of them has flaws and they sometimes fight with each other. Which made them more perfect than ever! Anyway enough admiration to the sex and the city girls.
My point is. There's this line in the first movie that is really worth thinking over. It is when Miranda's husband cheated on her. Right then she wanted a divorce. Something happened between Miranda and Carrie. When Miranda was asking for forgiveness, actually she was demanding for one, Carrie told her that she is badgering her for forgiveness for the last 3 days but she haven't thought of forgiving her husband with what he did 6 months ago. And then Carrie ended up with saying "Well, Miranda, you're a lawyer. You know,
ONE - IF you want forgiveness, you should learn to forgive others as well. Learn to forgive and FORGET. Saying you can forgive and not forget is the same as saying you can't forgive at all. PLUS, everybody deserves forgiveness. If you think you do, then what made your offenders not?
TWO - Though arguing is not entirely good. One should learn how to argue. argue well. argue BOTH sides of the story EVERY TIME. not only will you end up with a good decision, but you'll also end up doing the right thing. Always consider the other side of the story. Always put your feet in other's shoes. Don't you think everything will be less complicated with that? :)
My point is. There's this line in the first movie that is really worth thinking over. It is when Miranda's husband cheated on her. Right then she wanted a divorce. Something happened between Miranda and Carrie. When Miranda was asking for forgiveness, actually she was demanding for one, Carrie told her that she is badgering her for forgiveness for the last 3 days but she haven't thought of forgiving her husband with what he did 6 months ago. And then Carrie ended up with saying "Well, Miranda, you're a lawyer. You know,
you can argue both sides of any case"
After that i learned tow things.ONE - IF you want forgiveness, you should learn to forgive others as well. Learn to forgive and FORGET. Saying you can forgive and not forget is the same as saying you can't forgive at all. PLUS, everybody deserves forgiveness. If you think you do, then what made your offenders not?
TWO - Though arguing is not entirely good. One should learn how to argue. argue well. argue BOTH sides of the story EVERY TIME. not only will you end up with a good decision, but you'll also end up doing the right thing. Always consider the other side of the story. Always put your feet in other's shoes. Don't you think everything will be less complicated with that? :)
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